Friday, October 15, 2021

ALL IN WITH NANCY UPDATE #138

This is the one hundred and thirty-eighth in a series of NANCY UPDATES I have posted-- now celebrating the fact that even though her post bone marrow transplant and brain seizure recovery continues... the amazing Nancy Neufeld Callaway is still in full remission and has kicked her leukemia on its ass. 

Today was the 45th Annual City of Hope Bone Marrow Transplant Reunion. And while Covid protocols forced it to be virtual again— it was still extraordinarily moving— especially because Nancy was featured in a heartwarming video segment.

Here is a link to the entire program. In addition to seeing the Sunshiny Superwarrior Goddess, you’ll also get to see transplant recipients emotionally meeting their donors for the first time— not to mention warmly encouraging words from Will Farrell, Dodgers manager Dave Roberts, and the amazing man who saved Nancy’s life— Dr. Stephen Forman.

45TH ANNUAL CITY OF HOPE BONE MARROW TRANSPLANT REUNION

Thanks for watching. Thanks for being there for Nancy. And as always…

ALL IS WELL!

If you’d like to potentially save a life by registering for the International Bone Marrow Donor Bank, here’s a link:

INTERNATIONAL BONE MARROW DONOR REGISTRY

And if you’d like to donate to City of Hope and help them continue their tireless efforts to stop cancer, there’s a link for that, as well.

CITY OF HOPE - DONATIONS





Tuesday, April 13, 2021

 ALL IN WITH NANCY UPDATE #137

Greetings. 

This is the one hundred and thirty-seventh in a series of NANCY UPDATES I have posted-- now celebrating the fact that even though her post bone marrow transplant and brain seizure recovery continues... the amazing Nancy Neufeld Callaway is still in full remission and has kicked her leukemia on its ass. 

Nancy's corneal patch graft surgery appears to have gone without a hitch.


Even if it was delayed by some pre-op blood lab issues, I have to say, the UCLA Stein Eye Institute's surgical facility is pretty top notch. And her anesthesiologist, a wise and angelic man named Dr. Fang, was also extremely attentive to Nancy's complex medical journey of the past four and a half years-- and after conferring with her corneal specialist, Dr. Aldave, decided he didn't want to take the risk of prompting any seizure activity or causing any further memory loss by putting her completely under with general anesthesia. Instead, the decision was made to carefully administer a combo of gas and a strong local anesthetic-- which blocked all of Nancy's pain, but still left her awake and able to hear the surgeons doing their work.

And three hours later, the job was done. The specialist told me her donor cornea had been carefully trimmed to perfectly fit into the damaged area of Nancy's cornea and he was very pleased with the end result.

Oh, and maybe the best part? In the hours since getting her home afterward-- she hasn't really felt any significant pain or discomfort. Granted, her left eye is completely covered with gauze and a big aluminum shield-- but so far, so good. And we'll be back to UCLA tomorrow for a post-op exam.

Thank you so much for all of your kind emails and texts to Nancy. Your thoughtful encouragement and prayers mean the world to our entire family-- and your continued healing energy and prayers for a swift and complete recovery are more appreciated than you'll ever know.

I may lay off the daily blog updates for awhile-- but will definitely keep you all posted on her progress. In the meantime, just know this...

WE LOVE NANCY, and...

ALL IS WELL!

If you'd like to learn more about the UCLA Jules Stein Eye Institute and/or support their work, here's a link to more information:


If you'd like to register for the International Bone Marrow Donor Bank, here's a link. You could be someone's cure. You could literally save a life.


If you'd like to donate to City of Hope and help them continue their tireless efforts and research to stop cancer, there's a link for that as well.

City of Hope Online Donation

And if you'd like to be automatically notified of updates to this blog-- just enter your email address in the window on the right beneath Nancy's picture, click SUBMIT, and follow the prompts!

Monday, April 12, 2021

ALL IN WITH NANCY UPDATE #136

Greetings. 

This is the one hundred and thirty-sixth in a series of NANCY UPDATES I have posted-- now celebrating the fact that even though her post bone marrow transplant and brain seizure recovery continues... the amazing Nancy Neufeld Callaway is still in full remission and has kicked her leukemia on its ass. 

In case you missed the last update (which was the first in quite some time), Nancy has been experiencing some pretty difficult eye issues. Here's a link to the full story:


Now here's the latest update. Today-- Tuesday, April 13, 2021-- Nancy is having some pretty serious surgery. A corneal patch graft of her left eye, to be exact.

Basically, that means they'll be using a small fragment of a donor cornea to replace a section of Nancy's left cornea that has deteriorated to an extent it can threaten the integrity of her entire cornea. Her specialists at UCLA have been trying to glue the area for a number of weeks, hoping it would heal on its own. But since it hasn't-- they must now carefully cut away the area of corneal thinning, and replace it with a "patch" made from donor tissue. That actually gets sutured over the bottom edge of her iris. And in order to spare you the experience of having to look at any online surgical photos-- I drew you a really bad picture.

   

Assuming all goes well, and her body doesn't reject the patch-- the hope is that it will fuse with the rest of her cornea, healing the damaged area, with no further surgical procedures necessary. If it doesn't work, we'll be looking at a full corneal transplant. But let's be optimistic, shall we?


Nancy will be under general anesthesia for the procedure, and it should last about an hour and a half. Then, once it's over and she's recovered from surgery, I'll be bringing her home.  


So if you've got some spare prayers, healing energy, and/or simple words of encouragement you'd like to pass along to the Sunshiny Superwarrior Goddess-- this would be a good time, and we'll gladly accept any or all of it. And yes, I'll do my best to keep you posted on her progress here. Meanwhile, as always...

WE LOVE NANCY, and... 

ALL IS WELL!

If you'd like to register for the International Bone Marrow Donor Bank, here's a link. You could be someone's cure. You could literally save a life.


If you'd like to donate to City of Hope and help them continue their tireless efforts and research to stop cancer, there's a link for that as well.

City of Hope Online Donation

And if you'd like to be automatically notified of updates to this blog-- just enter your email address in the window on the right beneath Nancy's picture, click SUBMIT, and follow the prompts!

Thursday, April 1, 2021

ALL IN WITH NANCY UPDATE #135

Greetings. 

This is the one hundred and thirty-fifth in a series of NANCY UPDATES I have posted-- now celebrating the fact that even though her post bone marrow transplant and brain seizure recovery continues... the amazing Nancy Neufeld Callaway is still in full remission and has kicked her leukemia on its ass. 

Once again, it's been awhile since I updated this blog. But in addition to trying to get on with our lives-- there was also that whole global pandemic thing.

And unfortunately, the Sunshiny Superwarrior Goddess has had other difficult issues to deal with, as well. Because it turns out those eye issues I told you about in the last blog post back in 2019 have taken a bit of a turn for the worse.




As I've mentioned before, between high dose chemo, radiation, and a bone marrow transplant—you know there are going to be all kinds of different potential side effects. For Nancy, it happens to be her eyes—with all kinds of acute dry eye problems. She’s seen literally dozens of doctors and taken all kinds of medicines over the last few years to try to manage the symptoms. But it’s all basically the trade-off for staying alive.

 

2 MONTHS AGO, NANCY'S LEFT EYE BEGAN ACTING UP  



Things suddenly took a turn for the worse with her left eye. She developed a corneal ulcer—basically a small open wound on her left cornea. It hurt really badly and obviously impacted her vision in that eye. In addition to our trusted family ophthalmologist, she started seeing a number of corneal specialists at the UCLA Stein Eye Institute—who were surprised by just how fast things deteriorated. Her cornea rapidly began to thin—first by 40%, then by 60%, then by 90%. The doctors began seeing her pretty much every day, including weekends—and were ultimately forced to glue her left cornea in order to keep it from rupturing, which could force her to get a corneal transplant in order to save her vision. Yes, they literally use surgical superglue—and have now had to do it three times. They’ve also placed a protective contact lens over her eye. And she’s been forced to take some very heavy steroids to speed healing—which have been pretty rough on her mental and emotional state. As they searched for the cause of the ulcer—the specialists began to suspect some kind of systemic, immunological issue. So they also sent her to a rheumatologist for an indepth series of tests. She was tested for rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, Sjogren’s syndrome, hepatitis, ocular herpes, and all sorts of other conditions which are known to impact the eyes—but all those tests came back negative. 

 

Nevertheless, the UCLA rheumatologist, after conferring with her City of Hope oncologist, decided to put Nancy on a broad based “steroid sparing agent” called methotrexate so she can hopefully get off the heavy steroids ASAP.

 

The good news is, for the past two weeks, her eye specialists have at least been happy to see the situation with her left cornea stabilized. Some of them are even hopeful that her cornea will still be able to heal itself without the need for a transplant. Others are not so sure. But in the meantime…

 

2 WEEKS AGO, NANCY'S RIGHT EYE BEGAN ACTING UP

 


When Nancy suddenly started to experience pain and blurriness in her right eye—the doctors immediately jumped on it—and diagnosed her with an epithelial defect, or “scratch” across the surface of her right pupil. They quickly put a protective contact lens over that eye, as well—and gave her even more meds to take. 

 

The good news is, as of this week, the scratch appears to have healed. But the bad news is—like any scratch—it has left an elevated ridge of tissue across the surface of her eye that is continuing to impact her vision. 

 

NANCY’S CURRENT VISION

 

Currently, between her two eyes, Nancy can barely read her phone, computer, or any printed words that aren’t absolutely huge. Everything looks like a white fog. So know that when you text or email her—she probably can’t read it—even after I magnified all the type on her phone and computer to the largest sizes possible. So it’s best to call directly or send voice texts if you want to connect with her.

 

PROGNOSIS

 

The doctors are telling Nancy that the vision in her right eye should restore itself over the next two weeks as that elevated area of tissue continues to heal. As for the vision in her left eye—we’ll just have to hope, wait, and see if the cornea heals. If not, she’s either looking at a partial corneal graft or a full corneal transplant. 

 

Of course, ALL of this is exacerbated in every way possible by Nancy’s memory issues. In fairness, her daily treatment regimen would be confusing for most people, without memory issues. But because it’s often difficult for her to remember exactly what the doctors have told her—sometimes only hours later—she is easily discouraged by all of this. Every day feels like waking up to some new fresh hell for her. So my hope is that by sharing all of this information with you—you can encourage her and help her keep track of her progress. 



So thanks in advance for that encouragement-- not to mention your healing energy and prayers as she continues to fight her way back to wellness.

WE LOVE NANCY, and... 

ALL IS WELL!


If you'd like to register for the International Bone Marrow Donor Bank, here's a link. You could be someone's cure. You could literally save a life.


If you'd like to donate to City of Hope and help them continue their tireless efforts and research to stop cancer, there's a link for that as well.

City of Hope Online Donation

And if you'd like to be automatically notified of updates to this blog-- just enter your email address in the window on the right beneath Nancy's picture, click SUBMIT, and follow the prompts!